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PAST LIVES, PART 1

AS A HYPNOTHERAPIST, I HAVE STUDIED PAST LIFE REGRESSION, GIVEN CLIENTS MANY PAST LIFE SESSIONS AND EXPERIENCED MY OWN PAST LIVES MANY TIMES. I AM NOT OUT TO CONVINCE PEOPLE THAT PAST LIVES ARE REAL, THAT IS A PERSONAL CHOICE. I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SHARE WITH YOU SOME OF THE INTERESTING ADVENTURES I HAVE HAD OVER THE YEARS BY ALLOWING MYSELF TO TRAVEL BACK IN TIME TO OTHER LIVES. NOW, REINCARNATION IS AN ANCIENT BELIEF HELD DEAR TO MANY CULTURES AND RELIGIONS. MORE THEN ONE FIFTH OF THE WORLDS POPULATION HAVE THIS BELIEF. IT IS BECOMING MUCH MORE ACCEPTED NOW AS WELL IN NORTH AMERICA.

HYPNOSIS IS A PERFECT WAY TO ACCESS PAST LIFE MEMORIES AS WE ENTER INTO THE TERRITORY OF THE SUPER CONSCIOUS MIND. MY FIRST PAST LIFE EXPERIENCE HAPPENED ABOUT 12 YEARS AGO AND I FOUND MYSELF IN HOLLAND AS A YOUNG GIRL. I WAS AMAZED AT THE EASE AND COMFORT OF ACCESSING THIS MEMORY. I WAS WATCHING A MOVIE AND LIVING IT WITH ALL OF MY SENSES. I WAS SKIPPING THROUGH A WET FIELD, HEARING THE SOUND OF MY SHOES HITTING THE PUDDLES OF WATER, FEELING A SENSE OF FREEDOM AS I RAN AND SEEING MANY COLORS AND SHAPES OF THE LANDSCAPE. I LIVED WITH A HARD WORKING MOTHER AND FATHER AND HAD A YOUNGER BROTHER. I NOTICED MY BROTHER CRIED A LOT AND I FELT VERY LEFT OUT AT HOME AND WAS THEREFORE VERY IMPATIENT WITH HIM. THIS IS VERY COMMON IN OUR CULTURE AND CONSIDERED QUITE NORMAL BUT IN THIS DUTCH LIFE,I WAS NOT TOLERATED. I WAS SENT AWAY TO LIVE WITH AN AUNT AND UNCLE AND AS I RODE OFF IN A WAGON WAVING GOOD-BYE TO MY FAMILY, MY HEART WAS VERY HEAVY. I KNEW I WOULD NEVER REPEAT THAT BEHAVIOR WITH ANY SIBLING EVER AGAIN. THERE IS ALWAYS A LESSON TO LEARN FROM EACH PAST LIFE ADVENTURE. SOMETIMES IT IS A HUGE LIFE CHANGING PIECE OF WISDOM AND SOMETIMES JUST A SMALL REMINDER OF SOMETHING IMPORTANT BUT TEMPORARILY FORGOTTEN. MANY MYSTERIES HAVE BEEN SOLVED BY THESE PRECIOUS MEMORIES IN TIME. WE DON’T HAVE TO GO FAR TO HAVE GREAT ADVENTURES. A MIND EXPLORER CAN SIMPLY CLOSE THEIR EYES AND FLY BACK ON A GIANT BIRD, FLOAT BACK ON A CLOUD OR GO DOWN THE RIVER OF TIME TO THE FAR SHORE. BELIEVE IT OR NOT! MORE ON PAST LIVES NEXT WEEK.  WARM BLESSINGS, WANDA

 

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THE INNER CHILD

WARM GREETINGS!  HYPNOTHERAPISTS OFTEN WORK WITH THE INNER CHILD BECAUSE IF THAT PART OF US IS HURTING, IT NEEDS SOME TENDER LOVE AND CARE. NOW, AS AN ADULT, WE CAN LOOK BACK IN TIME AND REVIEW OUR MEMORIES OF CHILDHOOD AND IF THERE WAS TRAUMA, WE OFTEN SAY “OH, THAT WASN’T SO BAD. WE MIGHT REMEMBER IN A SMALL WAY BEING SCARED OR SAD OR ANGRY AND THEN BRUSH IT OFF, POSSIBLY THINKING “WHY DID I MAKE SUCH A BIG DEAL ABOUT THAT”. WE MUST REMEMBER THE POSITION OF THE CHILD- INNOCENT, DEPENDENT ON PARENTS OR CAREGIVERS AND WIDE OPEN TO SUGGESTION. EVEN SMALL THINGS CAN CUT DEEP INTO THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND OF A CHILD AND HAVE A LASTING EFFECT. THESE SMALL THINGS CAN GO UNNOTICED BY THE CONSCIOUS MIND AS THEY GROW MORE TOXIC OVER THE YEARS. WORKING WITH THE INNER CHILD WHO IS HURTING IS VITAL WHEN THE INITIAL TRAUMATIZING EVENT IS HOLDING THE ADULT BACK FROM REACHING THEIR FULL POTENTIAL. THAT DEAR SWEET CHILD NEEDS TO BE TOLD THE TRUTH AND THAT TRUTH IS OFTEN THE FACT THAT HE OR SHE HAS SURVIVED IT ALL AND EVEN LEARNED FROM THE HARDSHIPS. ONE WOMAN I WORKED WITH HAD WITNESSED A VIOLENT FIGHT BETWEEN HER PARENTS BEFORE THEY SPLIT UP. THERE WAS A LOT OF FEAR OF COURSE BUT TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE, HER MOM LEFT AND SHE HAD TO CARE FOR HER YOUNG BROTHER WHEN SHE WAS JUST A YOUNG GIRL HERSELF. IT HAD NEVER OCCURED TO THE OLDER WOMAN SITTING IN MY CHAIR, HOW MUCH SHE HAD LEARNED IN THOSE HARD YEARS. SHE LEARNED TO CARE FOR A YOUNG ONE, TO SHOP, COOK , BE RESPONSIBLE AND STRONG. FEAR AND ANGER WAS STILL THERE IN HER FIFTIES BUT ONCE THE WORK WAS DONE WITH HER INNER CHILD AND THOSE OLD EMOTIONS WERE RELEASED, THIS WONDERFUL WOMAN RECOGNIZED THE COURAGE , COMPASSION AND POWER THAT WAS ALWAYS A PART OF WHO SHE  WAS AND CONTINUES TO BE.  SHE  ALSO BECAME VERY PROUD OF THAT YOUNG GIRL, HER LOVABLE INNER CHILD. TAKE CARE UNTIL NEXT TIME, WANDA

ARE YOU READY TO BE A NON SMOKER FOR “LIFE” ?

AFTER WORKING WITH HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE OVER A PERIOD OF 15 YEARS FOR SMOKING CESSATION, I CAN TRUTHFULLY SAY THAT HYPNOSIS IS A DYNAMIC AND UNIQUE WAY TO MAKE THIS DRAMATIC CHANGE IN LIFE. MOST PEOPLE THAT  MAKE THEIR WAY TO MY OFFICE HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING TO QUIT- THE PATCH, THE GUM, DRUGS, ACCUPUNCTURE OR COLD TURKEY. NOT ONE OF THESE METHODS ADDRESSES THE SUBCONSCIOUS PROGRAMMING IN THE MIND THAT DRIVES THEM TO CONTINUE TO SMOKE. THE POWERFUL SUBCONSCIOUS (THE FEELING PART OF THE MIND), IS EVER SO VIGILANT IN ITS PROTECTION AND WHEN SMOKING EASES STRESS OR PAIN OR BOREDOM ETC. , IT WILL USE ITS POWER TO MAINTAIN THAT PROTECTION. THE AGE THAT A PERSON STARTS SMOKING (OFTEN TEEN-AGE), IS THE AGE THE SMOKING PROGRAM CONTINUES TO BE. IT CAN BE STUBBORN, REBELLIOUS AND SEEMINGLY HOPELESSLY RESISTANT TO CHANGE. HOWEVER, LIKE ANY RESISTANT PROGRAM, IT CAN BE REASONABLE AND COOPERATIVE WITH THE PROPER INTERVENTION. WITH HYPNOSIS, THE DECISION TO SMOKE OR NOT TO SMOKE CAN BE PUT INTO THE HANDS OF THE WISE ADULT AND WITH GENTLE PERSUASION AND NEGOTIATION, MOVE INTO THE NEW WAY OF LIFE. THE NEW IDENTITY OF NON SMOKER CAN MEAN FREEDOM (TO BREATH DEEPLY OR MOVE FASTER, OR TRAVEL EASIER, PLAY OR WORK HARDER, STAY INDOORS WHEN ITS COLD ETC.). IT CAN ALSO MEAN GREATER HEALTH (MORE OXYGEN IN THE CELLS, DECREASING THE RISK OF ALL CANCERS , HEART DISEASE AND REPIRATORY DISEASE OF ALL KINDS). IT CAN MEAN MORE PRECIOUS TIME FOR FUN AND PERSONAL GROWTH AND MORE MONEY TO HAVE FUN WITH. IT CAN MEAN SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE (VISITS WITHOUT INTERRUPTION, ACCESS TO SMOKE FREE PLACES). IT CAN MEAN BEING A GOOD EXAMPLE TO FRIENDS, CO-WORKERS, CHILDREN, AND GRANDCHILDREN.(AND SMELLING FRESH AND CLEAN AROUND THEM AS WELL.).  AND OF COURSE THE WHOLE IDEA OF A LONGER LIFE OF HIGH QUALITY IS HARD TO BEAT. I PERSONALLY MADE THIS CHANGE 35 YEARS AGO AND STILL CELEBRATE MY FREEDOM AND GREATER ABILILITY TO HEAL AND THINK MORE CLEARLY.  ARE YOU READY FOR A BETTER LIFE? I WISH THAT FOR YOU ALL. WANDA

THE POWER OF GENTLENESS

WARM GREETINGS TO YOU ALL!  THE POWER OF GENTLENESS IS ONE THAT IS HIGHLY UNDERESTIMATED. GENTLE PEOPLE ARE OFTEN THE UNSUNG HEROES ON THIS EARTH. RARELY DO THEY SEEK THE SPOTLIGHT, NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE INTIMIDATED BY IT BUT BECAUSE THEY DON’T NEED IT. THE GENTLE ONES ARE OFTEN DOING VERY IMPORTANT WORK WITH THEIR KEEN INSTINCTS AND PROFOUND INSIGHTS.  GENTLE PEOPLE ARE FOUND IN ALL WALKS OF LIFE AND ARE OFTEN MISUNDERSTOOD. GENTLENESS CAN APPEAR TO SOME PEOPLE AS WEAKNESS BUT OF COURSE THAT IS FAR FROM THE TRUTH. I HAVE PERSONALLY KNOWN MANY OF THESE EARTH ANGELS WHO HAVE MADE A HUGE IMPACT ON OUR PLANET. THEY REMIND ME OF THE DEER-AN ANIMAL WHO IS ULTIMATELY GENTLE BUT WITH HIGHLY EVOLVED INSTINCTS AND INTELLIGENCE. AN ANIMAL WHO KNOWS HOW TO FIGHT, ONLY IF THEY MUST. GENTLE ONES OFTEN PERFORM ACTS OF KINDNESS JUST BECAUSE THAT IS WHO THEY ARE AS LOVE AND COMPASSION ARE THEIR CONSTANT COMPANIONS.  A RICH SPIRITUALITY IS OFTEN PRESENT IN A GENTLE SOUL’S LIFE WHICH GIVES THEM AN AMAZING ABILITY TO MOVE INWARD TO EXPLORE THEIR OWN SUBCONSCIOUS AND SUPERCONSCIOUS MIND. I WOULD LIKE TO THANK ALL OF THE GENTLE PEOPLE WHO HAVE TOUCHED MY LIFE. MY FAMILY, MY FRIENDS, MANY OF MY CLIENTS, WORKMATES ETC. THOSE WHO HAVE PASSED ON AND THOSE STILL HERE-MAKING A DIFFERENCE EVERY DAY TO THE QUALITY OF LIFE ON EARTH.

WITH SOFT VOICES AND QUIET GENTLENESS THEY ARE LIKE WHISPERS OF WISDOM IN A BREEZE THAT BRUSHES OVER OUR REALITY. THINK CAREFULLY ABOUT YOUR PERCEPTION OF THE QUIET ONES AND BE CAREFUL ABOUT DISMISSING THEM. THEY COULD BE THE ONE WHO LIGHTS YOU A NEW PATH, DEFENDS YOU IN A TIME OF NEED, UNDERSTANDS WHO YOU REALLY ARE, GIVES YOU A LOAN, HEALS YOU OR EVEN SAVES YOUR LIFE. GOOD WISHES,WANDA

OLD PROGRAMS THAT EFFECT EATING BEHAVIOR

HOW MANY OF YOU REMEMBER YOUR PARENTS SAYING”NOW, EAT EVERYTHING ON YOUR PLATE”. AND YOU DID, EVEN WHEN YOU WEREN’T HUNGRY ANY MORE. WELL, MANY OF YOU STILL HAVE THIS MESSAGE RUNNING AND STILL FEEL COMPELLED TO CONTINUE EATING . THE RESULT CAN BE EXCESS WEIGHT. IF YOU GREW UP ON THE CANADIAN PRAIRIE AND YOUR PARENTS OR GRANDPARENTS WENT THROUGH THE GREAT DEPRESSION OF THE 1930s , YOU HAVE HEARD MANY STORIES OF NEAR STARVATION.(I CERTAINLY HAVE). EVERY BIT OF FOOD WAS IMPORTANT FOR SURVIVAL AND THE WORDS FINISH OR CLEAN YOUR PLATE HAD GREAT MEANING. THIS PROGRAMING WAS PASSED FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION AND THE RESULT CAN BE-  KEEPING FOOD THAT SHOULD BE THROWN OUT OR EATING UNHEALTHY FOOD BECAUSE IT SHOULDN’T BE WASTED AND JUST POOR JUDGEMENT REGARDING EATING BEHAVIOR.                                                                                                                                            ANOTHER OLD PROGRAM THAT IS VERY COMMON AMONG WOMAN IS “I DON’T WANT MEN TO NOTICE ME BECAUSE IF THEY DO, THEY MIGHT ABUSE ME”. THESE WOMAN WERE ONCE ABUSED PERHAPS IN CHILDHOOD OR AS  YOUNG WOMAN. THIS TRAUMA STILL REMAINS AND THE PROTECTOR PART OF THE SUBCONSCIOUS IS STILL DESPERATELY TRYING TO PROTECT THE YOUNGER GIRL.  THIS PROTECTOR STILL FEELS THE DANGER , EVEN WHEN IT IS LONG PAST AND THE WOMAN MAY HAVE A WONDERFUL HUSBAND AND FAMILY. BEING FAT AND UNATTRACTIVE IS A SURE WAY TO STAY SAFE EVEN WHEN THE CONSCIOUS MIND IS UNAWARE OF WHY THIS IS HAPPENING. CLEARING THESE OUT OF DATE PROGRAMS IS MORE THEN POSSIBLE. IF THIS SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING THAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU, IT IS WELL WORTH THE EFFORT TO SET YOURSELF FREE.    WARM REGARDS, WANDA

 

HUMAN KINDNESS

KINDNESS IN WORDS CREATES CONFIDENCE. KINDNESS IN THINKING CREATES PROFOUNDNESS. KINDNESS IN GIVING CREATES LOVE. LAO TZU-MYSTIC PHILOSOPHER OF ANCIENT CHINA.

EVERYDAY KINDNESS IS A GREAT BLESSING THAT FEEDS OUR SOULS. AS WE FOCUS ON KINDNESS, IT COMES TO US. AS WE USE KINDNESS EVERY DAY, WE RECOGNIZE ITS POWER AND IT CREATES COURAGE. HOW COULD WE EVER SURVIVE WITHOUT IT? IT IS THOSE PEOPLE ESPECIALLY, WHO SUFFERED A LOT IN CHILDHOOD THAT CAN REALLY REMEMBER THE KINDNESS THAT HELPED THEM MAKE IT THROUGH THE HARD TIMES.

A GREAT TOOL THAT MANY OF US AS HYPNOTISTS HAVE IS CALLED AGE REGRESSION. ONE TYPE OF AGE REGRESSION IS CALLED THE INFORMED CHILD. THIS IMPORTANT WORK TAKES PEOPLE BACK TO CHILDHOOD TRAUMA TO GIVE THAT CHILD A NEW PERSPECTIVE-ONE THAT CAN ALLOW THE OLD EMOTIONS TO BE NUETRALIZED. THEN THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED THE INFORMED ADULT, WHEN THE CHILD WITHIN REMINDS THE ADULT OF THE KINDNESS WHICH WAS GIVEN TO THEM. THAT SIMPLE GESTURE, SMILE OF CONFIDENCE, THAT WORD THAT HELPED US TO THINK THAT THE WORLD CAN BE SAFE OR COMPASSIONATE OR THAT WE ARE OKAY OR EVEN VERY SPECIAL. IT MAY HAVE BEEN JUST ONE WORD OR NOD OF THE HEAD OR A LOOK OF APPROVAL THAT CHANGED OUR WORLD SO PROFOUNDLY. KINDNESS MEANS EVERYTHING. LET US ALL BECOME MORE AWARE OF IT, CHERISH IT AND ABOVE ALL, USE IT. MAY THE GREAT LIGHT OF KINDNESS BE WITH YOU, WANDA

LETTING GO OF WEIGHT

HELLO TO ALL OF YOU READING THIS WITH AN INTEREST IN LETTING GO OF WEIGHT. I USE THE WORDS “LETTING GO” VERSES LOSS BECAUSE WE HAVE ALL LEARNED HOW TO LET GO OF THINGS AS WE GROW UP AND MATURE. WE HAD TO LET GO OF OUR MOTHER’S HAND AND MANY OTHER THINGS WHICH FEEL NORMAL AND RIGHT. ON THE OTHER HAND, WHO WANTS TO LOSE! , OR EVEN WORSE, FEEL LIKE A LOSER. THEREFORE, LETTING GO OF WEIGHT AS A WISE ADULT MAKING A WISE DECISION MAKES A LOT OF SENSE.

NOW, DIETS OFTEN FAIL AS MANY OF YOU KNOW, BUT THE POWER OF OUR DEEPER SUB-CONSCIOUS MIND IS JUST THAT-POWER! REGARDLESS OF HOW MANY POUNDS ONE WANTS TO LET GO OF, THERE IS A STRONG EMOTIONAL CHARGE BEHIND THE EATING BEHAVIOR. EMOTIONAL EATING IS NOT SENSIBLE EATING, IT IS NOT EATING BECAUSE OF NORMAL HUNGER, IT IS EATING TO EASE OUR STRESS, ANGER, SADNESS, GUILT, FRUSTRATION ETC. CARBS AND SUGAR FOODS ARE OFTEN THE COMFORT FOODS OF CHOICE AND OF COURSE THE EXTRA WEIGHT THEN FOLLOWS. SUPRESSING OUR EMOTIONS IS LIKE PUTTING A BAND-AID ON THEM AS THEY GET PUSHED EVEN DEEPER INTO THE SUB-CONSCIOUS. THESE EMOTIONS MUST BE DEALT WITH TO ACHIEVE LONG TERM SUCCESS. HYPNOTHERAPY IS AN IDEAL CHOICE TO ACCOMPLISH A TOTAL EMOTIONAL CLEARING AND A FRESH START. WITH A CLEAN EMOTIONAL SLATE, SENSIBLE CHOICES BECOME SO MUCH EASIER. SENSIBLE EATING CAN BE DIFFERENT FOR EACH PERSON, THEREFORE, AN INDIVIDUAL PLAN IS CREATED. WITH ULTIMATE SUPPORT FROM THE MOST POWERFUL PART OF THE MIND , FOLLOWING THROUGH WITH THE PLAN IS THE BEAUTIFUL RESULT. AND BEAUTIFUL IS HOW EVERYONE DESERVES TO FEEL! MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY. ARE YOU READY FOR THIS CHANGE? SENDING YOU WARM BLESSINGS, WANDA

HYPNOSIS FOR CHILDREN

SO MANY OF US , AS PARENTS, WANT TO SEE AND FEEL OUR CHILDREN HAVE AN EASIER TIME WITH LIFE.  WHAT A MYSTERIOUS WORLD INDEED THE CHILD IS BORN INTO! THERE IS SO MUCH TO FIGURE OUT IN SUCH A SHORT TIME. SOME KIDS FIND IT EASIER OF COURSE BUT ALL KIDS ARE WIDE OPEN TO SUGGESTION (BOTH GOOD AND BAD).

THE AREA BETWEEN OUR CONSCIOUS AND SUB-CONSCIOUS MIND IS CALLED THE CRITICAL CONSCIOUS MIND OR GUARD AT THE GATE. A GROWN UP’S GUARD IS UP AND RUNNING A LOT EACH DAY, BUT A CHILD’S GUARD IS MORE OFTEN DOWN . THIS MEANS THAT INFORMATION, EITHER NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE MOVES EASILY INTO THE CHILD’S SUB-CONSCIOUS AND NEW PROGRAMS ARE BORN. A FEAR PROGRAM, FOR EXAMPLE, THAT BEGAN AT AGE 5, CAN STILL BE RUNNING AT AGE 65. FEARS AND PHOBIAS CAN EVEN BE PASSED ON FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION.

AS A CULTURE, WE ALL NEED TO BE MORE AWARE OF HOW PROFOUNDLY OUR CHILDREN CAN BE AFFECTED BY WHAT ADULTS OFTEN THINK OF AS” UNIMPORTANT EVENTS.” AS A HYPNOTIST , I SEE PEOPLE CONSTANTLY WHO HAVE BEEN DEEPLY TRAUMATIZED BY THESE EVENTS FROM THEIR CHILDHOOD. 50 YEARS LATER, A PERSON CAN STILL BE DEALING WITH GUILT BECAUSE THEY FELT RESPONSIBLE FOR DAD LEAVING OR FOR MOM AND DAD FIGHTING. SOMETIMES LOW SELF ESTEME CAN BE TRACED BACK TO AN INITIAL SENSITIZING EVENT THAT OCCURED BEFORE THE AGE OF 6 AND THEN DEEPLY AFFECTED THEIR ENTIRE LIFE. ONE OF MY CLIENTS WAS TOLD THAT SHE HAD AN UNFORTUNATE FACE IN GRADE 1 AND CONTINUED TO BELIEVE IT AS A VERY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN.

OF COURSE , KIDS ALSO PICK UP THE SUGGESTIONS THAT THEY ARE LOVED, SAFE, DESERVING, LOVABLE AND PRECIOUS ETC. AND THESE ARE GEMS OF LIGHT TO KEEP AND CHERISH FOREVER. THE NEGATIVE PROGRAMS CAN BE NUETRALIZED (AND SOONER THEN LATER IS THE BEST). KIDS CAN BE EMPOWERED EARLY IN LIFE. THEY CAN UNDERSTAND THAT, EVEN AS KIDS, THEY HAVE POWER AND CONTROL IN THEIR OWN MINDS-EVEN WHEN THINGS AROUND THEM ARE NOT GOING WELL. KIDS CAN LEARN TO LET THINGS GO THAT DO NOT SERVE THEM WELL. THEY CAN EVEN LEARN TO “NOT BE HURT” BY WHAT THE BULLY SAID AT SCHOOL. MOST KIDS ARE TOTALLY BRILLIANT AND HAVE THE ABILITY TO CHANGE QUICKLY. I TRULY BELIEVE THEY ARE EVOLVING BEYOND OUR EXPECTATIONS AND NEED TO BE TREATED WITH THE UTMOST OF RESPECT. MANY BLESSINGS FOR CHILDREN EVERYWHERE, WANDA

FEARS AND PHOBIAS

EASTER GREETINGS TO YOU ALL. I WOULD LIKE TO TALK ABOUT FEARS AND PHOBIAS (EXTREME FEARS) TODAY. THIS TOPIC IS AN IMPORTANT ONE BECAUSE SO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR CULTURE SUFFER FROM THEM AND OFTEN FOR MANY YEARS. AS A HYPNOTHERAPIST, I HAVE WORKED WITH EVERYTHING FROM BOOGIE MEN UNDER THE BED TO FEARS OF FLYING , BUGS, MICE, THE DARK, SMALL SPACES, LARGE SPACES, FAILURE, SUCCESS, AND THE LIST GOES ON AND ON. MY CLIENTS WHO HAVE HAD THESE FEARS RANGED FROM PRE-SCHOOL AGE TO SENIORS. ALL OF THEM HAVING NORMAL HEALTHY MINDS EXCEPT FOR THE FEAR THAT TRULY INTERFERED WITH EVERYDAY LIFE.  FOR THE PERSON WHO SUFFERS WITH A FEAR OR PHOBIA, IT RARELY MAKES SENSE TO THEM AND THEY ARE OFTEN ANGRY AT THEMSELVES AND OTHERS WHO TEASE OR RIDICULE THEIR BEHAVIOR. I OFTEN HEAR “WHY SHOULD I BE AFRAID OF A LITTLE BUG, I AM A GROWN UP ADULT” OR “I KNOW THERE IS NOTHING TO HURT ME IN THE DARK, WHY DO I FEEL TERRIFIED”. WELL, FEAR IS A SUBCONSCIOS PROGRAM THAT IS MEANT TO PROTECT. IT IS THEREFORE IMPORTANT TO APPRECIATE THE PART OF US IN CHARGE OF FIGHT OR FLIGHT.  HUMANS HAVE SURVIVED BECAUSE OF IT! HOWEVER, IT IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHEN THE FEAR IS OVER PROTECTIVE IT IS CLEARLY OUT OF DATE AND TRYING TO PROTECT A YOUNGER PART THAT WAS ONCE TRAUMATIZED. HYPNOSIS CLEARS THE PAST TRAUMA, UPDATES THE  PROTECTOR AND ALLOWS THE MORE SENSIBLE AND GROWN UP  MIND TO HAVE THE POWER IT DESERVES.  IT IS TRULY A WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE TO WATCH THE TRANSFORMATION AND FEEL THE RELIEF WHEN PEOPLE BEGIN TO TEST THEIR TRUE BRAVERY AND FEARLESS-NESS. HAS THE TIME ARRIVED FOR YOU TO MAKE THIS CHANGE? HAPPY SPRING, WANDA

WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A HYPNOTHERAPIST

GREETINGS! TODAY-BEING 20 YEARS SINCE MY CANCER SURGERY, I TRULY UNDERSTAND WHY MY PASSION FOR HYPNOSIS BECAME SO POWERFULL. IT HELPED TO SAVE MY LIFE AND ALSO GAVE ME A HIGHER QUALITY LIFE. AS I MOVE MORE INTO A TEACHING PHASE, I HOPE TO SHOW  MY STUDENTS HOW IMPORTANT THIS PROFESSION REALLY IS.

WHAT DOES IT REALLY MEAN TO BE A HYPNOTHERAPIST(OR CONSULTING HYPNOTIST). WELL, I CAN GIVE YOU MY VERSION OF IT AND IF YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT HYPNOSIS AS A CAREER, I HOPE THIS IS HELPFUL TO YOU.

1. COMPASSION. I THINK COMPASSION IS THE MOST ESSENTIAL INGREDIENT. THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON FOR YOUR CLIENT’S PAIN AND ITS OUR JOB TO HELP THEM TO FIND A SOLUTION. WITHOUT COMPASSION, SMALL IMPORTANT DETAILS CAN BE MISSED OR DISMISSED. KINDNESS MEANS EVERYTHING.

2. TOTAL FOCUS ON THE CLIENT. THE DEDICATED HYPNOTHERAPIST PUTS ALL FOCUS ON THE CLIENT (EXCEPT FOR A GOOD STORY NOW AND THEN TO MAKE A POINT). IT FEELS GREAT BY THE WAY, TO FORGET ABOUT YOURSELF IN ORDER TO GUIDE SOMEONE ELSE.

3. FORGET THE JUDGEMENT. WE ARE NOT HYPNOTHERAPISTS TO JUDGE OR BE NEGATIVE IN ANY WAY TOWARD OUR CLIENTS. WE MUST BE OPEN MINDED AS WE DEAL WITH PEOPLE FROM MANY DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS AND WITH MANY DIFFERENT ISSUES. IT IS IMPORTANT TO WORK WITH THE CLIENT’S BELIEF SYSTEM , NOT OUR OWN.

4. EXPECT GREAT RESULTS. THE WELL TRAINED HYPNOTIST CAN EXPECT THEIR CLIENTS TO BE SUCCESSFUL. AFTER ALL, THERE IS NOTHING LIKE THE POWER OF OUR OWN MINDS TO HELP US TO MAKE A CHANGE. THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IN ACTION! FOCUS ON GOOD RESULTS AND THATS WHAT YOU GET.

5.CLEAR YOUR OWN ISSUES. TO BE AN OUTSTANDING GUIDE, ONE HAS TO TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. REGULAR CLEARINGS THROUGH SELF HYPNOSIS AND SESSIONS WITH OTHER HYPNOTISTS  IS A MUST DO.

6.CONTINUE TO BE INSPIRED. UPDATING OUR KNOWLEDGE WITH SEMINARS, CONVENTIONS, BOOKS ETC. KEEPS THE WORK EXCITING AND NEW.

7. WHAT ABOUT MONEY AND COMPETITION? WELL, THERE ARE MANY OPINIONS ON THIS ONE. HERE IS MINE. I FEEL NO PARTICULAR NEED TO BE COMPETITIVE. A LOT OF PEOPLE NEED OUR SERVICES AND IF WE DO A GOOD JOB, IT IS NOT FORGOTTEN. IF WE THINK ABUNDANCE,IT COMES TO US (LAW OF ATTRACTION AGAIN). BEING A MASTER AT MARKETING AND UP TO DATE WITH THE TIMES IS A GOOD THING ,ALWAYS KEEPING IN MIND TO BE REPECTFUL TO OTHER HYPNOTISTS IN YOUR AREA.

I HOPE THIS HELPS ALL OF YOU OUT THERE WHO ARE SERIOUSLY THINKING ABOUT STUDYING THIS GREAT WORK. IF I CAN HELP YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY, MY NEXT COURSE STARTS IN MAY. THE EXACT DATE WILL BE POSTED ON MY WEBSITE. SIGNING OFF. WANDA